I don’t run with many girls cause they talk too much..

This statement couldn’t have more truth in it than it does. If that makes any sense. I’ve been dealing with this issue for about 3 days and I really haven’t paid too much attention to it because it’s not that important. However, I just needed something to blog about..eh, whatever!

So, there’s this girl that I work with. Mind you, I know her boyfriend because we were introduced to each other through a mutual friend. When I was crushing on our mutual friend, he tried to make a pass at me. Red light! I don’t rock like that, but I digress. Some time had passed and we would see each other on campus. I’d speak and he’d speak back and that was the end of it. Well, now, I work with his “girlfriend”.  Ok, no problem. She and I are really cool and I’ve had no problems with her of any kind. To be honest, we don’t really talk to each other but when we do, it’s okay. I guess.

It’s safe to assume that he and her were having problems because everytime I was online, he would message me and dog her out. It had gotten to the point where I told him to stop and that what he was saying was uncalled for. Then, in his response, he asks:

Say if I tried to holla at you, would you tell [her]?

My response: HELL YEA!

I think I handled that situation PERFECTLY. I went on to tell him that his “girlfriend” and I were not the best of friends because we barely even knew each other but I respected her to the fullest and I would never do something like that to her. Good right? Wrong!

Apparently, he assumed  that I was going to tell her what he had said so I’m guessing he told her some bullshit first. So now, she’s comes into work and calls everyones’ names who she wants to speak to. Let’s just say, she doesn’t call mine. LOL. Now I see what he was talking about when he said she was STUPID. Yep, she’s really naive.

What gets me is that I did everything that I was supposed to do as a respectable female. This girl is truly a case. She is 20 years old with a baby whom she doesn’t even live with her. I don’t know what issues she may be having that may prevent her child from living with her. Who am I to judge? As a friend, I didn’t. We were talking one day and she tells me that she commends me for taking care of two children, working, and going to school. Then she says, she knows its hard. HARD? How exactly do YOU know that? You know not of the sort! Then, she asked me what should she do because she thought she was pregnant? As a friend, I gave her some advice AND I didn’t share that with ANYONE!

This is the thanks that I get!