Losing Patience
I’m really trying to keep my cool and refrain from getting upset. I’ve been so peaceful these last few weeks and I love it! Recently, I’ve been bombarded with calls and texts from my son’s father asking if we can talk about our problems and get past our differences and be together. I agreed with him up until the moment he said get back together. I’m not sure what else I can do to explain to this boy that it is over. Hell, even when C.W. had a little conversation with him, I thought he got the picture. Apparently he didn’t. It’s sickening that I can’t live my own life freely because this dumb fuck is the most ignorant person that I’ve ever dated. That’s obvious to everyone. He’s the only one that doesn’t comprehend dated.
restraining order, maybe?
Anyways, I’m almost done decorating. My sister is moving out of my house tomorrow so I can put things in places where her boxes were and take a few pictures for you all to see. But, I have a preview! This is just one side of the living room. It’s kind of hard to take a picture backwards with a laptop without including yourself in the picture. Please excuse the quality. I haven’t removed the plastic. LOL.
I’ll have move pictures later, maybe. I’m still looking for a few ivory plants. I LOVE ivory plants! They are so easy to take care of. I’m just cautious about Imari messing with them. We’ll see.
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It may take a minute but he’ll get the picture eventually. My son’s father was the same way. What’s crazy is he is in another state and seeing other women, but was still worried about what I was doing, like I’m out cheating on him and we aren’t even together. Hell he’s in another state!
It took me to literally curse him out and tell him to never text or call my phone again to get him to understand how serious I was.
The livingroom looks nice so far. I can’t wait until I have furniture to decorate mine one day…sigh.
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I’ve tried cursing him out–that doesn’t work! I think because we have talked to each other in that tone so frequently that it doesn’t phase him. I don’t want to say something that is hurtful and downright mean, but I think that’s what I’ll have to do to get some peace. Since this post, I’ve have 12 missed alerts! I can guarantee they’re from him. I can also guarantee that IF text messages are included in those alerts, NONE of them are in regards to financial support for his son! -smh-
I hope you’re able to decorate as well. Decorating is such a soothing process and it’s sort of like my outlet. So far, I’m pleased. This room was easy. Since my bedroom is ENORMOUS, I don’t even know WHERE to be begin!
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Wow he sounds rather maybe obsessive? Like the type “no one can have you except me” kind of guy? I don’t know what to tell you but its clear that your not geting back with him so that’s good.
Very cute picture. I love the candle pillars, where’d ya purchase them at? I have the same type of theme going on in my living room .. got the beige, red, black .. I love decorating!
O ya cute layout!
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It seems that they never want to go away, even when they’re blatant assholes and CLEARLY not your type. My son’s father is the same way but I can honestly say that he’s not an asshole, we’re just not compatible. My daughter’s father on the other hand, tries persistently, he’s not so bad if I actually had the patience to try to make things work again but once you’ve gone through certain shit with people, it’s very hard to want to turn back. You might have to get a restraining order on him, he sounds like a creep.
I love your setup! I can’t wait to actually get out of the house that I’m in so that I can decorate my new place.
Shannon – Almost 100%
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He is definitely that kind of guy and he has SAID that he was that type of guy before and I just never believed him. I’m taking the necessary measures to purge this foolishness from my life. I am happy and he hates that.
Believe it or not, I got those pillar at the St. Vincent De Paul Thrift Store for $10 — $5/each.
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Talk about creepy. Dude sounds like he should be in a straitjacket and tossed inside a padded room.
Omg, I’m so jealous!!! I’ve been in my apartment almost 8 months now and still haven’t decorated yet! I love what you’ve done so far. Your sofa looks so comfy :-)
Dominique – Loud & Wrong
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About the boy situation – time to get a restraining order on his retarded (pardon my language here) ass…seriously!!!! Gurl, if he starts to stalk your ass – time to get a restraining order on his dumb ass…
And here is a little something to make you smile – the fact that he can’t move on from you hun just clearly says YOU ARE HOT STUFF & IT DON’T GET ANY BETTER THAN YOU…but for some (like ya ex) you fuck it up – tis HIS lost not yours or your current man…clearly you are a precious gem that I know for a fact he is kicking himself in the balls for fucking things up with you and of course his desperate pathetic ass going to try his damnest to get you back cause he know he can’t find no other woman who is as precious as you!!!! Any man who screw things up with you would be SOO SERIOUSLY regretting the wrong they done onto you and in the process loosing you as a result…you are a very precious gem with a beautiful soul that any man would be DAMN LUCKY to have in his life
As for your interior decorating skills…LUVIN IT GURLFRIEND!!! I so can’t wait to get a place of my own – get in that decorating stage and “MAKING IT MY OWN” phase…that is the best part – especially when you get to shop for decorations and furniture for your new home…SHOPPING SPREE!!! *LOL*
Anyways, have a good one sweetz! And cheer up…obviously your ex just realized he lost something VERY VALUABLE and IS SO REGRETTING hurting you in the past that lead to him loosing you as a result…
Lotsa luv hun ((((WARM HUGZ)))))
Lisa Scerina – Protected: New Blog & Other Shit
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