17-A-DAY
A friend of mine reached out to me about the life of a full-time mother and full-time student. She began to explain to me how she has lost interest and how she isn’t as motivated as she used to be. She sought advice from me. She wanted to know what she could do to be more motivated, to be more enthused about her education. She wanted to know secrets, methods, and patterns of a full-time mother, student, and worker, respectively. Ultimately, she wanted to know how to do me.
Before responding, I tried to think of some encouraging words. I tried to integrate a series of quotes, bible scriptures, and words of widsom that I had heard; but, it just seemed more appropriate to be brutally and blatantly honest. I considered this girl a friend and I felt honored that she texted me for encouragement as she knows I’m in a similar situation. So, I told her the God Honest Truth.
THIS IS HARD!. It is diffcult and it is strenuous. Balancing a job while trying to get your education and tending to your required duties as a parent is no walk in the park or stroll on the beach at sunset. It takes discipline and sacrifice. It takes A LOT! There is no easy button.
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In my last entry, I explained that this is no cakewalk and it definitely isn’t. Balancing the previously mentioned takes a foolproof and solid plan. You’re responsible for instilling confidence and willpower within yourself. As cliche and as corny as it sounds, it’s true. Although she has a wonderful boyfriend whom renders assistance to their two sons, I can still empathize with her. I’d say that I could sympathize with her but she isn’t doing this alone. Of course she’s grateful for that and I’m even grateful that she isn’t in my position. I wouldn’t wish some of my hardships, my dark hours, and dim days on my worst enemy. In not doing so, I’m assuming that’s my reward–God blessing me with the strength to remain positive and productive. I’m not sure of anyone’s personal beliefs but I’m SURE there has to be some force of nature that keeps me alive. There has to be some superior being that gives me this energy that I feel so deprived of.
That is how I know there is a God, MY God! Well God, THY WILL BE DONE!
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Speaking for myself, I know I have had my times were I look at someone who I’ve perceived as “being in the same boat” as myself, and wondered ” How are they making it?” It sounds like you’re doing very well because you have optimism and you see pass your current situation (the essence of faith.)
I think you gave your friend the best & honest advice :yes: Your motivation is inspiring.
Krysten – I Love Chicago
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Wow all I have to say is god bless you. I don’t know how you do it but you do. You are like an inspiration to me, I think you set a good example to every single parent juggling work & school .. shit scratch the single parent .. to every parent!!! I give you so much props. Keep on going …
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Hhhmmm, and I still find time to complain about my life. This post is serving me a big piece of humble pie! I kid you not, I felt my eyes get heavy and my body just weaken from reading your schedule. I get mentally & emotionally drained so easy that it causes me to be lazy *that’s my lame excuse for not doing stuff* :-D But on a serious note, there’s definitely a strong entity that’s feeding you every bit of strength you have. Maybe it’s a silent cry for relief your soul is sending out for nourishment that keeps you going. I don’t know you on a personal level, but I think your a excellent mother. Some of these women need to take notes, including me.
Dominique – Music Review
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