About two weeks ago, I packed my bags, gassed up my car, and headed to Dallas, TX to attend the Women of Color STEM conference. My friend and I left on Thursday and arrived later in the day. Besides the fact that we did some horrible packing and we didn’t expect a cool front, it still was quite the experience.

– We also attended the Texas State Fair and got a pic with Big Tex, feasted on fried collared greens, fried mac and cheese, fried spaghetti and meatballs.. all fried everything. I stomach thanked me.


– I ate at P.F. Changs for the the first time. I wasn’t overly impressed but the food was delicious and filled me up for the shopping that I did in Northpark.

– We went to the Shark Bar. Another classmate that lives in the DFW area invited us. Definitely a chill and relaxed scene. The DJ was so awesome that I didn’t feel the pain my shoes caused.


– Rodizio’s Grill was just awesome! I have never tasted food like that ever in my life. It’s similar to a Texas de Brazil but much more inexpensive. And while we didn’t get a chance to taste the wild game (snake, buffalo, etc.), the meat that they did have was amazing. I tried chicken hearts for the first time, which didn’t taste horrible, but was wayyyy too chewy for my liking.

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– The Gala was lovely. It was nice to see so many STEM women looking so gorgeous. Too often, society likes to paint STEM women in a not so glorious light sometimes. Trust me, we still wear dresses and high heels. Speaking of dresses, I really fell in love with my dress when I spotted it at the thrift store. And for it to fit so perfectly like it was made for me had me convinced that I needed to buy it although I had already purchased my gown. But who can turn down a Cache gown priced at $10? Anywho, the reception after the gala was pretty live with all the cupid shuffling and the wobbling. And let me tell you, these women know how to party. You wouldn’t believe how low we can get when FloRida comes on. Chile..!

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– I especially enjoyed the seminar, “Walk in Her Shoes” which featured Dr. Akosua Barthwell Evans, Founder and Chief Executive Officer of the Barthwell Group and panelist Tamika Hollis, Executive director of Northrop Grumman Corporation. In fact, their session was my favorite. I guess it was because they allowed it to be more like a discussion rather than a speech that they were giving. I really felt as if I was supposed to be there simply because of the topic about “mom guilt.” I wrote about my guilt a while back and I discovered so many ladies express these same concerns. The speakers advised us to focus on the grand scheme of things which was to realize that everything you do in regards to your job activities and tasks is for your family. And that’s honestly the case with me. Everything I do, is in regards to being able to provide for my family and to make a wonderful life for them. To give them the means and resources to constantly progress. And to do so, I may have to travel so I can progress. And I can’t feel guilty about it. And I no longer do.

I left my guilt right on the chair I was sitting in for this seminar. And when I got back to work Monday morning, I informed management that I am willing and able to travel. Let’s see how this goes.

The Women of Color STEM Conference was such a wonderful and educational experience and I’ll definitely be in attendance next year. And a bit more prepared for the weather. LOL! I encourage all women in STEM to attend this conference.. or even if you’re not in the STEM field, I feel as though this conference can still be beneficial to you. It definitely was for me.

Now, I’m off to go and round up the gang to collect candy. Happy Halloween!

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  1. Kay

    October 31, 2013 at 5:56 pm

    Where do you thrift because you sure as hell fooled me. I love your dress. Look like prize on you.

    I would love to attend a conference about anything, chit chat about anything and dance to just about anything. Live it up for me until I get to where you are. I love your life.

    Don’t forget to sort out the candies before they eat it.

  2. Dannie

    October 31, 2013 at 9:41 pm

    That bun is everything! You look amazing. Yeah, I need to take a special road trip to visit your local thrift stores because I never have this type of luck!

  3. CeCe @Pink Sunshine

    November 1, 2013 at 2:40 pm

    That had to be a great DJ to block out the foot pain! You two look great. So cool that you had the opportunity to attend an event like that. I’m assuming it was for women in science?

    1. Rae

      November 6, 2013 at 11:46 am

      Yep – It actually stands for Science, Technology, Engineering, & Mathematics

  4. From Mrs. to Mom

    November 3, 2013 at 9:20 pm

    I’m irritated. No matter how many times I add you to my bloglovin’ feed your posts do not show up. I mean I know that’s not your fault but I feel like I’m missing out on all your posts! Anyway… I love, love, LOVE, your outfits, girl!! You make thrifting look good. And I haven’t been to PF Changs in so long! You’re making me want to run there…now!

    1. Rae

      November 6, 2013 at 2:11 pm

      hmm.. I’m not sure what’s going on with BlogLovin’.. I know a few people have added me on there. Personally, I don’t use it. I use The Old Reader and I love it much better.

  5. Vaneese

    November 4, 2013 at 10:10 am

    Oooh, looks like you ladies had some fun. And y’all were working those dresses, hunty! It’s always great to have a companion when attending these events. I find them so much more enlightening and informative when there are opportunities to actually talk through the sessions, bounce ideas off of each other, etc. Good for you, leaving that mom guilt behind!!

  6. Law_Fal

    November 4, 2013 at 8:44 pm

    You looked AMAzING!!! Glad you had fun in Dallas. I love shopping in Northpark Mall whenever I go there. It’s so fancy! It is good to attend conferences like that I love leaving them feeling enlightened!!!

    1. Rae

      November 6, 2013 at 11:50 am

      It’s definitely fancy in Northpark. And I’m actually proud of my restraint! LOL!

  7. april

    November 11, 2013 at 12:39 pm

    You look great! I love your yellow and black dress and that classic bun.

  8. Courtnee

    November 11, 2013 at 9:13 pm

    I just want to say that you are WEARIIIIING that dress hunny, yeeeees! You look amazing!

    Dallas is my old stopping ground. I love and miss it! Glad you had a great time. It’s always great to see beautiful, ambitious, black pursuing there career.


  9. Jennifer

    November 18, 2013 at 8:37 pm

    Hey there ! Just letting you know that I nominated you for the Liebster award. The post can be found right here and I look forward to reading your own post soon, should you choose to participate. I hope you do :)

  10. vanessa

    December 5, 2013 at 11:14 am

    i feel like i’ve missed out on so many posts because i can’t figure out how to follow you on this thing, haha.
    but looooove that blue gown though.

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